I hope you all had a magnificent Thanksgiving. Mine was tremendous. Thank you for asking. I am a great lover of the traditional Thanksgiving meal and we celebrated twice over the weekend, so how could it go wrong? This was the first Thanksgiving in six years that I didn't have to work and got to really enjoy it. Plus I got to see all of the family I love, on my side and my in-laws. Four star Thanksgiving for sure! I'll attach a photo or two at the end.
Allie, the child who has an unusually diverse vocabulary, has thrown some zingers my way. I say diverse because she can be totally incorrect with her grammar, and she follows it by busting out the four star words that make us go, "How in the hell does she know that?" Sometimes you will get them both within the same conversation. One minute she will say, "I seed the pap-ah ova thay-rr" and the next she will say "Would you like to read the instructions as well?" One minute she's a New Yawker and the next she's little miss proper grammar.
So, in her honor, I'm going to list the five most irritating words/phrases that make me wish the Language Police would come fine people for using them, along with five that I feel should be snuck into Webster's Dictionary. DON'T CLICK THAT BUTTON! I know you're rolling your eyes and thinking 'borrrrrrrrrring', but I implore you to just skim through this. Do it just for shits and giggles! You might be saying this stuff and don't know it's wrong, therefore, you will learn just like I did from someone else. I'm only sharing knowledge, not preaching. We be equals, dawg.
Bad bad words that give me pre-vomit cheek water:
1- IRREGARDLESS : This sucker is numero uno. For those of you who think it's not a word, I regret to inform you that it is. Some jackass in 1912 decided he wanted to sound like a smartypants (more on that one later) and started using it. Here is my argument....Regardless means "in spite of things" or "without care". And that freaking "IR" they slapped at the means it's going to be the opposite of the rest of the word "REGARDLESS". So does that mean irregardless means "caring about things; with care"? Nope. Oh my gawd, it's too exhausting. I hate the person who made this word up.
2- COULD CARE LESS: So, you COULD? Then that means you DO care a bit. It's "Couldn't care less". That means that you've reached the bottom of giving a shit. You totally don't care. Not even a rat's ass worth of caring. "COULD" is the opposite of what you really mean, and trust me when I tell you that people hear it and the polite ones are thinking, 'What a moron. It's couldn't, not could." Maybe you don't care that people think you're a moron. Therefore you couldn't care less. (see how I did that?!)
3- FUNCTIONABILITY: Not a word. Not even a little bit. The person is trying to say functionality, but functionability sounds so much more impressive, doesn't it? Not if you know it's not a word!
4- JOHN DOE OR MYSELF: When I worked at a large company, I saw the big cheeses doing this all of the time. I sent them all an email saying "It's not: Please see John or myself. It is: Please see John or me." Not one person changed. They think adding "myself" sounds so fancy. Trying to sound fancy is actually making them look like a jackass. If you aren't sure what to use, follow this rule that my Mom taught me: "Take the other person out of the sentence and see what sounds right." So, does "Please see myself" sound better than "Please see me"? Nay nay.
5- IRONY IS NOT COINCIDENCE - The other day I heard someone say, "It started pouring and ironically I had grabbed my umbrella this morning without knowing it was going to rain!" Oh, heavy sigh. IRONY is the opposite of COINCIDENCE. I'm not going to lecture on this one. Look it up. I will summarize it with this: IRONY: "The irony of it is that I grabbed all of our rain coats umbrellas this morning thinking we were getting rain and it ended up being a perfectly sunny day." COINCIDENCE: "I grabbed my umbrella without thinking this morning and coincidentally it began to pour the second I got out of my car."
Five words/phrases that don't receive proper recognition:
1- WACKADOODLE - I have no idea when I started using this term, but it perfectly summarizes a vast number of people I know. People who are totally out of their minds, yet harmless, are wackadoodles. I'm sure many of you are reading this and thinking "Hello, pot? This is the kettle....you're black!"
2- KAJUNGOUS or HUGEANTIC - When ginormous made it into the dictionary a few years ago, everyone and their cousin emailed me. Why? Because I used it all of the time and people made fun of me. Well, surprise, surprise! Those peeps at Merriam-Webster beg to differ! They find it useful. Pllbth! Kajungous was a favorite from high school, but Hugeantic (hugely gigantic) really is interchangeable with Ginormous (gigantically enormous). They just don't know it yet.
3- AGREEANCE - it just flows better than "agreement". And it does have an air of smartypantsness. It's in the dictionary, but the dictionary peeps are a bunch of snobs who put it in there under duress and discourage the usage.
4- CLUSTERF*CK - I know I'm pushing it with this one. But who hasn't been in the middle of a project that has gone seriously wrong? And if you're pissed about the disaster, this one works well. I often wonder if Obama got into the White House, evaluated the situation in the Middle East and looked at his constituents and said, "Well, isn't this just one big giant clusterfuck??!!"
5- ________PANTS - My grand finale. My personal favorite. Einstein was a smartypants. When Allie gives me the "nnnnnnnnnno!" answer to my requests, she's a freshypants. I was sick on and off for three months, so I was sickypants. The bitch who cut me off at the gas station and gave me the finger this morning was a nastypants. She was a snottypants too. Love it.
Feel free to add your own personal favorites in the comments!
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In the meantime, here are a few photos from the past few days:
|"Just give me one more minute and I'll have this thing working. And YES, the backscratcher is a necessary tool for this repair!"
|"Hello. My name is Allie. I'll be your server this evening. What can I get you?"
|"This restaurant stinks. I'm overworked and underpaid. I can't even read my own handwriting anymore."
|4pm on November 28th....Allie finally gets over her 3 YEAR shyness with her Uncle and sees that he's damn awesome. (Fortunately they play together better than he and I did when we were her age!)
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